Moses who led the people of Israel in circles for 40 years wandering in an unbearably hot desert while they ate the same thing for breakfast, lunch and supper every day while He promised them a land of milk and honey until a whole generation died in the desert. Moses died there as well. Is that leadership? Did God intend that?
If you have ever been wounded by someone who should never have wounded you listen up. The way Joseph dealt with wounds is a blueprint for dealing with wicked people especially when those wicked people are our friends and even our family.